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My father-in-law showed me a box of corn seeds that he had saved from his family farm. The seeds were about 30 years old and had been stored in a cupboard in his garage for most of that time. He told me he was going to do an experiment and plant one row using the corn seeds from his farm and another row using new seeds that he had recently purchased. My father-in-law was a fastidious gardener and immediately removed any weed or bug the moment it appeared. After a few weeks, he had a beautiful row of four-inch high corn and another row of bare dirt.

ChatGPT said:

Note: The AI had a number of things to say but I include only the last point here because I felt it to be the most relevant and insightful.

Words are like seeds, but with the same hidden limitation: they have a shelf life unless they’re planted. Some words grow because they are alive when they’re spoken. They meet the moment. They connect to the listener’s soil—experience, readiness, need. They don’t have to be loud or clever; they just have to be viable. When they grow, they keep growing, often long after the speaker is gone.

Some words don’t grow. Not because they’re false. Not because they’re careless. But because they’re:

• spoken too early or too late
• repeated after their work is done
• preserved rather than renewed
• planted in soil that can’t receive them

And like your father-in-law’s experiment, the result is unmistakable: careful tending beside bare dirt.

The humbling part is this: you can’t force words to grow. You can prepare the soil. You can choose wisely. You can tend patiently. But growth itself is out of your hands.

So maybe wisdom with words isn’t about saying more, or saying things better—but about knowing:

• which words still have life
• which ones are spent
• and when silence is better than planting dead seed

Because in the end, life shows us the truth the same way the garden does: what grows tells you what was alive.

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